I dropped by the nest site again - I observed both adults during the time I was there - I'm not positive on identification of male vs female yet but the second adult (presumably male) arrived on the nest shortly after I arrived. Still no clear sign of anything other than incubation.
Both adults did indulge me with some extended looks at their plumage (incubating bird standing on the nest rim edge and preening for an extended period, and the other adult after arriving and leaving the nest, perching in a nearby tree about 30 ft away for a good 20-25 min). The bird in the tree (which I'm provisionally assuming to be the male) looked to have noticeable more rufous plumage on the upper and middle chest (both adults have a typical Coopers rufous and cream colored feathers on the chest, but in this case the upper chest is very strongly rufous, with somewhat more cream colored tone on the lower chest/upper belly). By contrast the bird on the nest (provisionally assumed to be female) also had more rufous tone on the upper/mid chest and more cream coloration towards the belly, but the overall tone throughout is noticeably less strongly rufous overall). The bird on the nest also had a small darker patch to the feathers on the lower right side of the belly, although I'm not positive this wasn't dirt and/or a leaf or branch in the way.
These characteristics may serve to distinguish the individuals if they can be consistently observed. The best way to confirm which is male and which is female would be based on size - although I think the difference in size is a bit less than my pair last year (my male was particularly small), the female will undoubtedly be visibly larger in size. However at this stage it may require some real luck to get an useful side by side view of them for comparison.
My male Coopers last year had a particular tree he would usually perch in when roosting near the nest - I don't know if the tree close to the nest the bird was in this evening could be a common and/or night roost area or not (when walking towards the nest along the path from Glen Erin, this tree would be in a direction at about 2 o clock relative to the nest (I think that is roughly eastward).