We cannot control the kooks, we can only be wary of them, I for one, have had an experience in which I have learned to push the sadness I felt after another list posted the whereabouts of an owl I had seen in a common park,
It was my first LEO..I was excited, it was beautiful and I was truly amazed as it stared back at me with my camera through the branches..this is the memory I hold onto, I often look back at these photos of mine and smile. That is something someone told me..do not let anyone take away the "moment" of your sighting, the feeling of the thrill of seeing a LEO
I agree with Colin, being elite is not the way to go.
The owls will show themselves if they want to, they are elusive, and if you disturb them, they will let you know by simply flying away.
that's just my two cents
Happy birding and enjoy every thing you see!