an older birder mentioned this to me a while ago and i thought he was just being homophobic.
when i got there yesterday, i noticed a few things that were really obvious:
-a fancy car literally stopped behind my car and watched me get out of my car. he just watched. no attempt to park no attempt to drive off. almost like he was looking for an "invite". when i walked towards the platform, he turned around and drove off.
-a few parked cars with men sitting in them. no winter coats. they all looked when i got out of my car, like they were expecting someone to be joining them.
-lots of car traffic on the road with no one stopping to get out and bird. just lots of looking
-hearing about some observed frolicking and a DVD being left over
just so you know, this is nothing to do with sexuality. if it was a case of girls and guys cruising and frolicking, i'd be almost as annoyed (I admit that it is strange to be eyed by random men in cars). its more of the idea of me going someone to bird and relax and wondering if i'm going to accidentally stumble upon something i am not really wanting to see.
so yeah, a heads up for you all.